I’m a seriously lucky human, who has the most loving and supportive partner.
She’s so supportive that she has written an account of squirting from the perspective of someone who is in a relationship with a squirter:
I remember the first time my (now) wife squirted.
It was something I had never experienced before, either myself or with another female sexual partner. I remember being surprised and very very happy. It was such a satisfying moment to realise I had pleasured her so much that she had come on me. Legit gushed.
At the time, we were in the early stages of our relationship, falling in love, learning about each other; what made us tick (in all manner of ways, not just between the sheets). You know, that beautiful time when you are just obsessed with this new person and never want to stop hanging out with them. Luckily for me she felt the same way and still does, and three years later, we’re still just as infatuated with each other and do not like being apart at all. As I always say, she’s my human.
This first gushing incident, I remember my wife being a bit shocked herself, and then concerned that this squirting thing would be a turn off for some reason. “Are you kidding me?” I said. It was probably one of the few sexual moments of my life I remember so clearly and so happily. I felt all sorts of wonderful, a) because I’d clearly turned her on so much, and b) there’s nothing more of a turn on for me than my partner having an awesome sexual experience.
So, the squirting, gushing, lady ejaculating, whatever you want to call it has continued over the past three years, much to my delight. It’s not always been easy though.
Sadly, my wife has gone through phases where she’s felt squirting was dirty, shameful, gross, annoying, a turn off and so on. Each and every time I have gently reminded her that this experience is SUCH A FABULOUS THING! I LOVE IT! And most importantly, it’s natural.
Sure, squirting means you need to be prepared: plastic bags, towels, table cloths, absorbent sports towels (we’ve tried a few combos over time) but, so what?? We always make sure to have these items on hand, even when travelling, so that we can whip them out whenever it’s needed. And you know what? It’s no big deal. In my mind, sex is not an act in which one can be worried about what your body is going to excrete. And I’d hope that whether people are squirters or not, that they’d be showering after sex, and washing their bedding as needed! So, we have a few extra towels to wash, who cares. Then there’s shower sex, bath sex, sex in places where you can just spray and wipe down afterwards… No biggie.
So, it has been a bit of a journey together, dispelling this idea that female ejaculation is somehow unclean. If anyone tells you, or tries to say that lady squirt is wrong or gross: they can get fucked. You’re telling me it’s okay for guys to squirt viscous, gooey, sometimes smelly stuff, but for women it’s not? Get. Fuuuuuuucked.
My wife is a squirter. I am so glad she is because it makes our sex so friggen hot. It is such a turn on and it shows me she’s having a fucking good time. Have you ever had your woman squirt on your clit while grinding you? Try it sometime, it’s out of this world.
To all the squirters out there: own it and love it. And be sure to take a sexual partner who shares the delight of squirting with you. After all, you’re a goddess and everyone should know that.